Domestic violence: another epidemic that manifests during Corona time
Written by: TOP DOCTORS®
Edited by: Aya Diab
Recently, the world has witnessed unprecedented decisions, after the outbreak of Coronavirus and the increase in the number of deaths and injuries, as most countries imposed a curfew in most cities and in other cities, a full lockdown was imposed. These mandatory restrictions imposed in most countries of the world; has had a devastating effect on the lives of many, and it has a major impact on the lives of women, men and their children, who are considered as victims of endless domestic violence that has manifested greatly under these circumstances.
Although these restrictions have been lifted from most of the countries around the world, Top Doctors team has been keen to advise you in the event that these conditions of lockdowns or curfew are repeated in the future for any reason. You will also a summarized list of contact details for support organizations in the Kingdom, at the end of this article.
When there is no safe place o go
After the campaign that was held by most of the countries around the world with the name “Stay home”, home isolation has become the nightmare of those who are forced to suffer gender-based violence daily. Before the COVID-19 pandemic, victims had more reasons to leave home i.e. to go to work, see family and friends, take children to school children etc. Necessary restrictions mean that these reasons are no longer allowed and as a result, the security and safety of domestic abuse victims have been significantly compromised.
Lockdown reveals the high percentage of domestic violence
Due to the novel coronavirus COVID-19, most of the cities around the world went into lockdown. Since then, reports of domestic violence have been increasing. The lockdown has resulted in social instability and economic uncertainty. If you find your abuser is becoming additionally agitated by financial worries or restrictions on their daily living, you might find their aggression towards you has also has increased.
Despite the emergency situation, services are available that can provide support for you and your children too. You might feel discouraged from seeking help from the police or support networks because your abuser is at home with you, but it’s important to know that you still have access to different methods of help.
If you believe you are in immediate danger, call 999
If you or your children are in an emergency situation, e.g. if you’re being pursued or attacked, call 999 immediately to alert the police. Even during the lockdown, the police are still able to assist you.
The following list contains advice on living with your abuser:
- Plan an escape route. Think of where you could run to, how to contact the police and how to alert nearby neighbors. If you have children, tell them where to go in case you get separated.
- Avoid rooms with objects that could be used to hurt you, like the kitchen.
- Make sure your children know how to call 999.
If you can’t call someone because your abuser will hear you
Calling isn't your only method. For example, Human Rights Commission - Saudi Arabia offers advice and support via email. This way, you can get help discretely without them hearing you. If you choose to email, it’s worth noting that you should mention when it’s safe for them to reply to you.
You can get support and protection 24/7
Family Violence Reporting Center provides social protection for women of any age, children under the age of eighteen, and some vulnerable groups from abuse and domestic violence in their various forms. It receives domestic violence reports on the toll-free number (1919). Over the course of (24) hours with fully female staff. But remember, in an emergency, you should call the police 999.
If your abuser is aware of their violent behavior and wants to stop
If your abuser is aware of their behavior and its effect on you (and possibly your children too), and have admitted that they want to change it, there is support available.
Family and social care agency is a place that provides programs and assistance courses for people who commit acts of domestic violence, without judging them. The agency also provides support to help them change their behavior and actions. It also provides support and assistance to victims.
It is important to remember that even if your abuser is trying to change, you are not obligated to continue giving the relationship a chance and you are still able to get help if they continue to abuse you.